Costumed connecting

Joyce (as Emma) and Kat (as a character from Aria) for Anime Boston 2011

The more I shared in Kat's interests, the more connected we became and the stronger our relationship.

Kids interests are who they are. When we respect their interests they feel valued and respected.

If there are interests you've given a good try to but can't find the passion for, you can support in other ways: by being the designated driver, by paying for what they need, by researching, by knowing enough to have conversations.

You don't need to dress up in crazy outfits to grow great relationships with your kids. But it often makes it a lot more fun! :-)